Diary Of A Single Lady

Few days ago was Valentine, I’m sure some of you had fun ! for me it was  like a regular day at work.

As a little girl ,i'd imagined life will work out just as it did for Cinderella towards the later part of her life…she getting married to a charming prince. I m sure every lady fantasize about that !Have come to realize that no matter how much you want the best out of life, you should be prepared to share part of the challenges that comes with it.

I’m in my 30s single with a good \ decent job yet the only thing my family and friends see is my single status ! Most times I think twice before hanging with my friends as most of them are married and all hear  from them is ‘’any luck? When are you getting married? Age is not on your side bla la bla as a matter of fact some even cut me out of some social activities because their husbands think hanging out with a single lady is a bad influence ,while some even go as far as suggesting I see my pastor (like its spiritual) ,seriously what is going on? Sometimes I wonder if we want to get married because we've found the right person or because society won’t leave us alone!

Not that i'm ugly,i'm pretty and I know it ,and it’s not that I don’t meet guys I do but they are either married or in relationships,so what am I supposed to do? Be a side chick or what? Seriously the hustle to become a MRS is a serious thing,I know some friends who have had  to relocate to other states or countries with the hope of finding a husband..

Sincerely i used to be worried, infact cried and ask if truly there was something wrong with me but lately i've been doing some talking to myself to stop the worrying,anxieties and forget what everyone is saying concerning my single status and focus on my career, there are loads of great things happening in my life as I write (even though friends and family won't acknowledge that ! ) that i should be grateful for .

Let me close my diary with this " because it is dark around you now,doesn't mean the sun won't rise again,there will always be something to be thankful for !!!

Thank you Lyn-nur for this opportunity to share my diary with your readers

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